Have you ever seen a guy who went completely nuts over a certain girl even though she wasn’t that good looking or smart and did you find yourself thinking – What does he see in her? She isn’t even that special.
The important point to note here is that in your point of view, she might not be that attractive or special but that specific guy is seeing her through a completely different lens. He is seeing things in her that you might not see at all.
Now the good news is that you can use re-framing to change a guy’s views about you, and make him find you absolutely attractive, irresistible and exceptionally special even if you aren’t that good looking, skinny or smart.
You see, making small easy adjustments in your personality, you can make a guy think that you are one of the most interesting women he’s ever come across, and not only that, you can actually make him see you as this special, one in a million woman he would be lucky to have in his life.
Every guy is born with a protector instinct, his job in the “early man days” used to be to protect the family from predators.
If you can awaken the masculine part of a man completely, he would feel a gut level desire to protect you and do nice things for you.
Once this part awakens, he will go out of his way to do loving things for you and will even feel obligated and responsible for your well being. In fact, this is one of the most little known secrets to truly making a man fall in love with you.
Most women feel that in order to get a man to love them, they should do a lot of nice things, dress sexy etc, but the reality is that, all that can actually repulse him.
Since every man is a born hunter, he is a provider at his very core and he will feel a lot of pleasure when you let him take care of you appealing to the masculine part of him.
Now you must be thinking – Alright I understand that I have to trigger a sense of positive discomfort in his mind, re-frame his point of view and awaken the masculine part of him but I am still a little confused because I don’t know exactly what to do.