5 Personality Traits That Guys Quickly Fall In Love With
By Clayton Max, Author of Infatuation Scripts
“A girl ought to be 2 things: classy and incredible .”– Coco Chanel
Whether you’re searching for a long-lasting partner, or currently have one, it pays to have the right habits to grow the spark of attraction.
One vital thing about men is they don’t necessarily know exactly how to say what they desire in a relationship.
A lot of men never really learned about expressing their emotions while growing up. So it can be difficult for them to let their partner know about their emotional and physical desires.
And this leads to miscommunication and unfulfilled expectations, which can create problems.
Fortunately, I’m here to give you the inside track of how guys think about relationships. Drawing from my own experience working with my clients, below are my Top 5 Tips To Make A Man Crazy About You :
# 1: Play Hard to Get
I know this could sound like familiar territory, but listen up.
A lot of women (and guys !) try to create attraction putting on a distant-but- I-might-be-in -to-you act.
Also, these women may wait for a while to respond to messages (a few days) so they don’t look desperate. Worse, they act like they’re too busy, expecting it’ll make a man more interested in them.
But this strategy tends to backfire.
Doing this sends mixed messages – and he’ll ultimately see through it. This, naturally, is a huge turn-off.
There’s no problem showing interest in him when you like them, so don’t bother playing silly mind games.
Instead, take a different approach — one that focuses on authenticity.
Offer hints that you like him, and be enthusiastic when you’re with each other. Experts assert that a man starts falling in love with a woman once they know that they are wanted.
Regarding “playing hard to get”, we’re talking about actually keeping busy.
Be engaged with all parts of your life… your job, your friends and family, hobbies and interests, and all those things that make up a well-rounded and enjoyable life.
If enjoying life means that you’re unavailable once in a while, that’s a good thing.
Richard Wiseman, author of “59 Seconds: Change Your Life in Under a Minute”, did some research on this.
He discovered that people who played hard to get gave the impression that they are a high-value person. Nonetheless, they ALSO had to show interest in the other individual to be attractive.
This way, it placed the subject in a more well rounded and appealing light.
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# 2: Light His Fire
Essentially, you need to create intense emotions within him while he’s with you. This will make him connect those emotions with you, which intensifies the urge to be with you.
In an MIT study, behavioral researchers found that individuals have a tendency of projecting their feelings from one thought to the next.
What does this mean?
As an example, imagine you nearly struck another car while driving to work, you would transfer those traumatic thoughts with you into the office. That previous, unrelated experience would bleed into the remainder of your workday.
This is called “psychological misattribution” or “psychological leakage ” – the human propensity to connect strong feelings to the nearest person or situation, even if they had little to do with it.
Additionally, it relates to the fact that becoming physically aroused can easily translate into a sexual attraction. So, if you can find ways to keep your time together exciting for him – like doing sports or something physically intensive — then he’ll latch those feelings onto you.
# 3: Laugh at His Jokes
For sure, many women react to this one with a raised eyebrow.
But hear me out – this might just be a game-changer in moving things along.
First off, I’m not telling you to roll on the floor in hysterics at every one of his awful “dad-jokes”.
But if your funny bone is tingling from his one-liners, then go ahead and let him know.
Research shows that humor is a significant factor in intimacy. As you already know, women like men who are funny as it signifies intellect (which is an alluring attribute ).
But recent research was done Westfield State College, University of Western Ontario, and McMaster University found that “men preferred those who were receptive to their own humor, particularly for sexual relationships.”
It’s not that he wants to be “that funny guy” … but more about his desire to be valued his partner.
You’d be surprised at the number of guys who say that “being valued” is one of the vital ingredients in a future relationship for them. So, appreciating his humor and personality is a good place to begin.
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# 4: The Social Butterfly
According to several studies, you can be more attractive to socializing with your friends.
For example, there’s research from Tilburg University in the Netherlands and the University of California that both documented the effect of what’s known as “The Cheerleader Effect.”
The study essentially says that a person will categorize you as higher-value when you’re seen in a group.
On the surface, you could assume it’s because you’ll appear more sociable and charming.
However, there’s one more angle to it. You see, we have a tendency of classifying individual components (like shapes, objects, and people) into basic groups.
This is a hardwired survival habit to not visually focus too much on one individual thing – but rather take in the entire picture (like peripheral vision). And this impulse applies to an individual’s social life also.
So for a tip to boost your allure, you can set your social media (and online dating) profile picture to a photo of you with a few close friends. Just ensure it’s clear who you are in the photo so you don’t disappear in the sea of faces!
If you’re aiming to find someone new at a bar or party, make sure to bring your friends along too. Social proof is a real phenomenon, so make full use of it.
# 5: Indulge His Sensual Appetite
No surprise here. Sex is a key aspect of any healthy relationship.
However, you might be shocked — and downright worried — how many women are lacking in this area.
A lot of them take for granted the power of using their feminine charm to pull men in.
And no, I’m not saying you need to act out an adult film to turn a man on.
I’m telling you to get familiar with a guy’s desires.
For instance, some women under value the power of physical touch.
A lot of men go their entire lives without knowing the pure pleasure of a validating pat on the back, a hug, or other types of affection.
So making use of body language is an excellent method to spark a deeper connection — whether it’s brushing against his arm or leg “accidentally ” …
… or placing your hand on his arm for a moment.
Remember, men love a flirtatious chase and the delicious pleasure of the “slow burn.”
And don’t forget, guys love variety when it comes to the main event in bed. Spicing things up from time to time can be a huge turn on.
Better yet, discuss your mutual desires. What he’s curious to try, and maybe you have your own burning desires.
One final tip – there’s an additional trait I forgot to discuss earlier, yet it’s a real game-changer.
Research done at Rutgers University found a one-of-a-kind psychological trait in guys known as an “emotional tripwire.”
Now, when you understand how this works – and how to implement it (which is very simple ) …
… your man will quickly go into a state of intense infatuation.
It’s like a splinter in his brain, making him incapable of seeing any other women in a romantic way — except YOU.
There’s a free video explaining this in STUNNING detail, so make sure you’re sitting down before watching it:
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