It can become very frustrating when you get a woman’s number, but after a few texts, she seems to be least interested or turns cold in response. Your immediate reaction is to consider her to be fake and dismiss her negatively.
Do you realize that if you do this, you are missing out on something which actually could be a game-changer, and loses out on an opportunity?
Perhaps you are making one of these common ‘texting’ mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.
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Let us check out the some Texting Mistakes that guys normally make.
1: Confusing Responses for Attraction
You see, she won’t feel much of a connection to you before you had your first date with her. Like it or not, maybe you’re probably not the only guy texting her. A common mistake most guys make when they’re texting a girl is that they mistake responses for attraction. He believes that he’s getting closer to getting her on a date or to seducing her!
The exact opposite is true! The more texts you send before meeting up with a girl, the less chance you have of actually meeting up with her! Even if she is responding to your texts, you are not getting anything closer to her.
In fact, saying more through texts you appear to be begging her for a response.
Make it simple asking yourself how likely is your text to get her closer to you. Pointless texts such as “How’s your day?” or “Enjoying the warm weather?” should be avoided. If your answer is simply “to get her to know her better,” erase the text. It’s not going to help you.
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2: Not Conveying “Fun”
When a woman gives you her number she is not signing a social contract to go out with you…That is the truth of the matter.
And until it seems fun for her… she’s probably not going to bother meeting up with you. So when you send boring texts that don’t display any personality or don’t elicit any emotions in her… in her mind you’re not worth the trouble of meeting up with.
Every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.
3: Not Having a Texting Style
If you’re texting an attractive woman, remember are you are not the only guy she is getting a text from today. She has got lot of guys wanting her attention!
So if you want to stand out- your texts need to display your unique style and personality. She should be able to know it is a text from you just reading it (even if the name was blocked). What words, phrases, punctuation, or emoticons are uniquely yours? Do you get the point?
4: Having Long Text Conversations
Leave out the formalities. Your texts should not be actual long conversations. Keep it as cool as possible with short messages. The longer the conversation the more chances are that you will mess it up or make your position embarrassing.
Every time you pick up the phone… jump right into the good stuff. Start with an anecdote, a short amusing or interesting story about a real incident or person. Start with a teasing nickname. Find a way to quickly spark emotion and get her paying full attention to you.
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